When I turned 35, last summer, I vowed to myself that it would be the year I got hold of my finances and made a difference. Maybe I felt this lay off coming, deep down, and knew it was time to make changes. But since my vow I’ve done pretty good at knocking out a bunch of little silly debts and now I’m working on the larger ones. Although it sucks putting out big bucks for stuff like paying taxes and buying new tires its still a great feeling to get on track with these responsibilities and get them out of the way.
As far as committments go today I gave my trainer a check to pay for four months of private training so I can get farther on my weight loss journey. And I’ve got to say this has been the best money I’ve spent on myself in a very long time.
Another commitment I’ve made, recently, has been back to my faith. The girls and I have began going to church on Sunday morning. We go to 8am mass and I’ve got to say I really have missed church. My parents use to make me go when I was younger and I hated it, but now its something I actually look forward to. The Snitch gets a little bored, but hey she’s only six years old so I don’t blame her. Drama Queen, on the other hand, really enjoys mass and tries her hardest to keep up with the service. Drama Queen has been asking questions about religion and church for the last few months so I think that’s why she’s so into it now. And that’s a good thing, too, because she’s of the age where its almost time for her to begin her sacraments. I need to call the church office and get info on CCD (a Saturday class attend by kids for a few years to prepare for accepting Catholic sacraments) to get Drama Queen enrolled for this summer, The Snitch still has a few years before she has to go.
So even though my life appears boring, to me, on the day to day basis I feel pretty darn good about the changes I’ve been making.

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January 27, 2009 at 12:45am
auntiegwen
When my children were small, we went to church every week and we go much less regularly now but when I do go, I love the peace it makes in my head.
January 27, 2009 at 6:33am
Beej
I am glad that you’re feeling so good about getting shit together. As much as I hate watching money float out the door when I do the bills, I get some satisfaction in knowing that I am “this much” closer to the house being paid off, you know?
Though I still can’t bring myself to go to church. I think it’s largely b/c I don’t get it. We went to Polish mass. If I really really listened I could have understood it more. But at 7 AM on Sunday mornings it’s hard to get your brain to focus so hard on something and it’s easier to just zone out for an hour.
When ever I go to an English mass now, I have no idea what the proper responses to things are. I have no idea what the parts of the mass are called either. My husband, raised by Agnostics, knows more about the Bible than I do, b/c I never bothered to crack it open when I was in CCD.
January 27, 2009 at 10:10am
Flyinfox_SATX
This is so a good thing…Recently, I have become active in my church again as well. For me its a place I can go for some peace on Sunday. It really refills my spirit.
Good for you!
January 27, 2009 at 3:48pm
Ang
My family was very strict with Mass growing up. Sick or not, you went to Mass. Though truthfully I usually enjoyed Mass- when I could stay awake, lol. My family filled several pews and extended family scattered through the small church. I kind of escaped it all after moving 600 miles away. I didn’t know anyone and didn’t like to go alone. Not the family affair I was use to. So I tried to make myself go sporadically over the SC years. Now living closer to “home” but still can’t make myself go. I want to go. I like to go. Totally will psych myself into going, get up in plenty of time and then don’t…unless I drive 2+ hours to go with some family. I seriously feel like I’ve failed the kids in this aspect.
Ugh–I think I need a shrink, LOL.
January 27, 2009 at 5:32pm
Renee
Sounds like you are doing a great job getting on track! Church is a good way to start!
January 27, 2009 at 6:15pm
Carrie
I’m starting to get ahead in my bills and it feels good. I like having arond $500 in my account as a floater but getting the bills paid feels so much better.
Good luck with your changes. I know you have done great with the weightloss.
January 29, 2009 at 3:55pm
Lori
You are doing great with all the changes! I’m still researching churches but will get me and Pedro to one within a couple of weeks.
February 7, 2009 at 3:46pm
Lindsey
It doesn’t sound boring to me at all! It sounds quite nice actually.