Last night we were partying at my Grandpa’s house, celebrating two of my aunt’s birthday’s. While outside I was talking and drinking with Aunt B. I don’t know how the conversation went in the direction it did but we ended up talking about the days she and I use to party together, drugs. Aunt B apologized to me, last night, for introducing me to drugs and getting me started on that horrible five year drug abuse journey I took. She cried, hugged me and kept apologizing.
As you know, I’ve been clean ten years and I was messed up for five years, so that takes me back into my teenage years when she introduced that shit to me. Now she and I have both grown, matured and gotten over our drug use days, so to have her apologize for it really tripped me out. I never thought she had to apologize for that because I’ve got a mind of my own and decided to do it and continue using for years.
But it was nice to hear her say she’s sorry and admit if it wasn’t for her I probably wouldn’t have gone down that path in my life. But hey, I don’t hold grudges (yeah right) and I’m a true believer of everything happens for a reason. I pulled myself out of that hell, got better and have become a better person in the end. I’ve lived and learned.

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January 27, 2008 at 1:06pm
Heidi
That’s great that she was able to apologize. Even if you did make the decision to do drugs, you might not have been presented with it had she not introduced you to it.
And yay for you getting yourself clean!! I’ve heard the stories and you’re so lucky to have pulled yourself out of that lifestyle.
January 27, 2008 at 7:09pm
Carrie
I’m like you, I really try not to regret stuff. You wouldn’t be who you are today…
That is cool of her to apologize.
January 27, 2008 at 9:46pm
chelle
Everything DOES happen for a reason!! I am a strong believer in that, too!! Sometimes the path we take isn’t necessarily the one we would choose….but look at you now!
January 29, 2008 at 2:56am
Lindsey
But I bet it meant a lot that she did apologize. She cares a lot about you. I’m glad you got through everything though and it made you stronger. Seriously, I don’t even want to know what these blog posts would be like if you were on drugs!!!
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