Tonight begins the services for my grandmother’s funeral. Mister has been asked, by my Grandfather, to be a pallbearer. This means he had to run out and buy clothes for the services.
Saturday he’s out shopping and I get a phone call:
M: Hey, Babe! Can I wear brown shoes?
C: *thinking Oh fuck* To where, honey?
M: To the services.
C: Urrrr…do you think it would look ok with all black?
M: That’s why I’m calling you.
C: *shit* Ok, if YOU saw a guy dressed in all black and he had on brown shoes, would you talk about him behind his back?
M: *silence* I’ll call you back. *click*
PHEW! Fashion disaster diverted!
He comes home, on Saturday, with no shirt and shoes. Well, besides the ones he left wearing, that is.
So out to the mall he went, again, on Sunday. This time, upon his return, he has a new shirt! Woohoo! But no new shoes. WTF?
Well, that man of mine decides he’s not going to buy new black shoes. He says I’ll never wear them again, so why waste my money? For the record, he has black shirts that he could wear with jeans and black shoes to dress up a casual outfit. Wait. Do men have “outfits”? Oh, that’s a whole ‘nuther post isn’t it?
Anyway what he decides to do is paint polish his old brown shoes instead. He said he needs to replace the brown Sketcher’s anyway so after the services he’ll just throw them away.
Are you serious? Is what I asked him. Yes I am, LOOK! is what he said to me. And this, my friends, is what my husband has done to save a few bucks:
Niiiice. At this point, I don’t even care. I’m not going to be seen with him! lol I’m going to be riding with either my parents or my uncle because Mister will be taking his mom and our girls to an from the services.
Lord, help that cheapskate of mine.

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April 23, 2007 at 6:58pm
The "Mind"
I’m in tears here! Those shoes look like crap! Bwahahahahaha!
Oh well, at least you can get your man into a suit. We all know what Pman would be wearing…shorts.
*sigh*
But I’m still laughing.
Fucken Mister!
April 23, 2007 at 7:27pm
Carrie
That is great! I swear, me and Mister will get along just fine. Adam gives me shit about stuff too. I love the shoes. And I think it is smart. Just remember hun, you can’t judge them because they are MEN. And we all know how they think.
(He could have at least gone to the thrift store and got some.)
April 23, 2007 at 7:41pm
Oh, The Joys
Ha! At least he’s resourceful!
April 23, 2007 at 7:58pm
Sara
OMFG.
LMAO Fucken Mister! I am dying here.
April 23, 2007 at 8:22pm
Cece
Up close & personal,they do look like shit! But whatever, Ho!
What pisses me off (even more) is that he’s had 5 DAYS to buy something & hasn’t. Know what I JUST found out? He still has to buy shoes for TONIGHT! He’s been to the mall/shopping twice already & hasn’t bought JACK SHIT!
Fuck me. I need a drink & its only 10:23 am!
April 23, 2007 at 8:33pm
Gypsy
Well, it was worth a shot? Eh, no one’s gonna care that much about his shoes, I don’t think. You could just run out to Payless and get some if he’s not going to wear them again.
April 23, 2007 at 9:20pm
Janet a.k.a. "Wonder Mom"
At least he went out to buy them himself…I’d hafta pick out a pair and then return them to pick out a new pair because the first ones weren’t good enough…Ugh.
Good luck tonight…Hug.
April 23, 2007 at 11:32pm
Samantha_K
HA! Men.
April 24, 2007 at 12:54am
Cece
I’m going to be watching the wet grass for black foot prints. LMAO
April 24, 2007 at 3:12am
Ms.L
LMAO!
Ya know..I don’t think they look that bad;p
I’d probably do the SAME thing,so I’m no help,hee hee
April 24, 2007 at 3:18am
Lindsey
Are we with the same person?? No, no really?? On second thought, maybe you and I are dating Mister/Edgar/Carrie–the alpha male!
April 24, 2007 at 10:13am
Jay
Oh my god!!!!
That’s totally hilarious.
I don’t know how you stand it. That kind of thing would never fly at my house. But how does anyone even begin to survive without black shoes? Or any dress shoes? Because those certainly aren’t dressy!
Luckily Jason likes to look good. He’s not a super shopper but I buy him nice stuff and he wears it all. He has more shoes than any other man I know.
April 24, 2007 at 5:06pm
mom of 2
oh no…that is too funny! Tell him to go to Payless and get a cheap pair of shoes and be done with it! Men crack me up when it comes to fashion!
April 24, 2007 at 6:58pm
Carrie
lindsey-You are going to get it!
April 24, 2007 at 7:31pm
Julie
I linked over here from Lindsey’s blog and I had to comment because….
I am so glad that my boyfriend is not the only guy that has done this before.
Of course I was horrified.
April 24, 2007 at 11:33pm
Beej
Brilliant!
April 25, 2007 at 12:48am
Aimee
OMG that’s funny! I was totally going to suggest skechers.
April 25, 2007 at 5:00pm
Cece
Oh Jay, I have no idea how he does it. I’m serious. But that’s SO him that it doesn’t even surprise me. lol
Julie, thanks for stopping by & commenting!
April 25, 2007 at 9:54pm
heartinsanfrancisco
You need to go shopping WITH him. Pick out appropriate things and have him try them on. He’ll be relieved, and you’ll be happy with the way he looks.
He probably has no fashion sense and is so intimidated by salespeople that he buys nothing rather than make a mistake.
Flip likes to shop for clothes. We usually do it together. That way, he comes home with stuff that we both like.