04.30.07

Inspired by Desparate Houswives

Posted in Uncategorized tagged at 4:54pm by Cece

I’ve got a question for you, Is it ok to date a friend’s Ex? Which is worse, dating their ex-spouse or ex-boyfriend/girlfriend? Or does it matter? If you feel its alright to date the ex of a friend are there rules to doing so? Do you feel you need to ask permission before doing it? Or do you just do it and give them a heads-up about it?

How would you feel if a friend of yours began dating your ex? Would you confront them or just turn your head? Would you turn against your friend because of it?

Finally, have you, could you or would you date the ex of one of your friends? Discuss.

04.29.07

Because I’m honest

Posted in Uncategorized tagged , at 9:01pm by Cece

I’m going to tell you something. Last night I smoked.

Mister and I got into a pretty big fight (which is rare) and I ended up leaving, walking to the corner store, shaking and crying, and bought a pack of smokes. My mom came to get me after that.

After awhile my mom took me home, then Mister and I talked and worked things out before going to bed.

This morning I got up and threw away my $4.21 pack of smokes, of which there were still about 15 left in the pack.

You know, I thought the first hit would be yucky tasting and all, but it wasn’t. Well, maybe I had enough booze in my system to not notice the awful taste. lol But before I went to bed I did scrub and scrub my mouth with my toothbrush because my mouth was gross.

So I’m bummed. I fucked up. Now I’m deciding do I start counting my days without smoking all over again? Or do I continue and just chalk that up to one slip? I’m really feeling guilty about this. Seriously. This is bothering me more than our argument! lol

So there, I said I would be accountable to you people. Don’t hate me because I was weak.

04.28.07

You know what sucks?

Posted in Uncategorized tagged , at 10:04am by Cece

No one in my family noticed I had stopped smoking!

Two weeks ago I said to Mister You know, with it only being two weeks of no smoking I can see a difference in my teeth already! You know what that bastard said to me? You stopped smoking??? *Insert the Erruuh of Scooby Doo*

Then today we had to stop for gas before we headed out for the night. Mister went in to pay, then tossed a bag of peanuts onto my lap. I said Cool. Thanks! Drama Queen said Let me guess, he bought your cigarettes. When I told her smart ass I had stopped smoking she said You did???

Even my grandma, next door to me, didn’t notice that I don’t come home, drop my shit on the table, grab a smoke and kick it for 5 minutes after work the way I use to. It wasn’t until I was talking to my dad about it that she was all Oooh yeah. Now that I think about it I haven’t seen or smelled you outside smoking, huh? Niiiice. Thanks for not noticing important shit but taking notice of stupid shit.

Its sort of made me feel fucked up, a little. But I bet you that if I smoked one more they’d all notice then, huh! Bastards. lol Ok, so either my family doesn’t pay much attention to me, that includes my punk ass husband, or I just didn’t smoke as much as I thought I did. Hmmm…

04.27.07

Nostalgic

Posted in Uncategorized tagged , at 6:37pm by Cece

Being the product of teenage parents, I don’t remember doing a lot of fun things when I was a kid. My dad was in the service for a few years and my mom was a stay at home mom until I was of school age. Even when she went to work for the first time she was 22 and her first job was Burger King.

I don’t remember my parents taking me on vacations or even just a weekend away from home. They didn’t have a lot of money or time. My dad worked 6 days a week for YEARS. Never took his given vacation time from work. No, instead he cashed in his vacation hours for an extra pay check, once a year. That’s the sacrifice he made for his little family.

I remember going to Sea World. Once, maybe twice as a child. I don’t recall being taken to Disneyland until I was an older child. It was just something they couldn’t afford.

But what I do remember us doing, quite often, is going to the Drive-In Theatres and watching movies! The first movie I remember seeing at the Drive-In was The Rescuers. That was in 1977, 30 years ago. I remember sitting in the front seat of my parents big, brown Oldsmobile. I remember going out in my flannel night gown and slippers. I remember falling asleep, my dad laying me down in the back seat and then putting me in my own bed when we came home.

My mom tells me that back then $5 a car load was the price of admission. Do you know what that means? That means my teenage parents had many nights out at the Drive-In theatre with their friends. They tell some of the funniest stories of those nights.

Now I’m a parent and times are certainly much different. You can barely rent a DVD for $5. Don’t even bother trying to see a movie at a theatre if you only have $5 in your wallet!

My kids certainly are having a much more exciting (and spoiled if I do say so myself) childhood than I had growing up. Just because times are different doesn’t mean they won’t have the same memories that we had as kids. Last year my aunt told me her husband found the last standing (and still operating) Drive-In Theatre here in S. CA!

Last summer we loaded up Mister’s Suburban, grabbed kids, pizza, beer and lounge chairs and hit the movies! At first the kids were a bit freaked out that they had to go in public while wearing pj’s. But once they saw all the other kids in pj’s they “got it”.

Now that Spring is in the air, the weather is beginning to warm and its officially Drive-In time. Tonight we’re taking the kids to the Drive-In for a cheap family night out. Its not $5 a car load like it was 30 years ago. But for $15 our family of four can see 2 (3 if we can keep our eyes open) movies. Do you know it costs us almost $30 just to WALK INTO the regular movie theatre! And we’re not talking lunch or snacks either.

I think Mister and I appreciate being at the Drive-In much more than the kids do. I know my sister and I have a blast being able to watch a first run movie, while sitting outside, drinking and smoking! lol Ahhh…the good ol’ days.

04.26.07

Who says I can’t cook???

Posted in Uncategorized tagged at 8:04pm by Cece

Well, besides Mister, that is.

I can cook. And I think I do a pretty good job at it, too. The reason I don’t always cook, at home, is because Mister is usually home from work between noon and 2pm. When I’m rolling in at 5:30 dinner is ready. Why shouldn’t it be, right? He’s been home for hours by the time I get in!

There are times when I get home and he’s either decided not to cook or has been asleep and didn’t get up in time. I’ll gladly cook. But then we’re eating closer to 7pm. If he doesn’t want to eat that late, then meals like this are prepared for the family:

Yup. That is a tray of Bagel Bites and Curly Fries. lol But not all of my meals are made of frozen/processed crap. No, last night I made chicken fajitas and cooked a pan of Spanish rice. But the kids wanted Mac n Cheese, so that’s what they ate…along with frozen taquitos. lol

After the last two weeks of fast food and mass produced food at my grandparents house, I am aching to get cooking again. I can’t wait to see Mister in the kitchen cooking when I get home! No more of the Just throw something in the oven, have it ready when I get home so I can change, grab a bite and go to grandpa’s house. Not to mention the tightness in my pants after these past two weeks. Good lord I’ve missed the gym and the park!

04.25.07

You know you’re too drunk when…

Posted in Uncategorized tagged , , at 5:03pm by Cece

You can’t even comment on your own blog! lol

That was me last night. Damn. Who turned on the fricken word verification? Its on, but the Settings says its not. Wassup with that?

I’m not going to worry about it right now. Nu-uh. I’m waiting for Drama Queen to finish her homework and breakfast so I can drop her off to school and go back to bed.

Oh and in the midst of our drunken state, last night, my cousin convinced me to call in sick and go to Hollywood with him today! We’re suppose to go to Barney’s Beanery for lunch. So I’ll have to grab my camera because you never know who we might see there! Oh shit. I sound like a total tourist, huh? lol That’s alright. My cousin isn’t easily star struck because back in NM he often waits on Julia Roberts, who he says is a total bitch. I’m just saying. lol

Oh and want to hear something funny? Last night I gave my cousin, who I hadn’t seen in years, my business card. I gave it to him like 3 times. By the end of the night he had a pocket full of my cards. lol Ahh, drunk nights…

Alright, its back to bed I go so my head can get right.

04.23.07

Smart or cheap? You decide.

Posted in Uncategorized tagged , at 5:07pm by Cece

Tonight begins the services for my grandmother’s funeral. Mister has been asked, by my Grandfather, to be a pallbearer. This means he had to run out and buy clothes for the services.

Saturday he’s out shopping and I get a phone call:

M: Hey, Babe! Can I wear brown shoes?
C: *thinking Oh fuck* To where, honey?
M: To the services.
C: Urrrr…do you think it would look ok with all black?
M: That’s why I’m calling you.
C: *shit* Ok, if YOU saw a guy dressed in all black and he had on brown shoes, would you talk about him behind his back?
M: *silence* I’ll call you back. *click*

PHEW! Fashion disaster diverted!

He comes home, on Saturday, with no shirt and shoes. Well, besides the ones he left wearing, that is.

So out to the mall he went, again, on Sunday. This time, upon his return, he has a new shirt! Woohoo! But no new shoes. WTF?

Well, that man of mine decides he’s not going to buy new black shoes. He says I’ll never wear them again, so why waste my money? For the record, he has black shirts that he could wear with jeans and black shoes to dress up a casual outfit. Wait. Do men have “outfits”? Oh, that’s a whole ‘nuther post isn’t it?

Anyway what he decides to do is paint polish his old brown shoes instead. He said he needs to replace the brown Sketcher’s anyway so after the services he’ll just throw them away.

Are you serious? Is what I asked him. Yes I am, LOOK! is what he said to me. And this, my friends, is what my husband has done to save a few bucks:

Niiiice. At this point, I don’t even care. I’m not going to be seen with him! lol I’m going to be riding with either my parents or my uncle because Mister will be taking his mom and our girls to an from the services.

Lord, help that cheapskate of mine.

04.21.07

Welcome to my mind

Posted in Uncategorized tagged , at 6:41pm by Cece

I’m one of those people who think about things. Even worse than that, I vocalize my thoughts. What’s wrong with that? You ask. Well, some of the shit that goes through my mind is so useless and annoying. Not annoying to me, obviously, but to others. Mainly my sister.

She and I use to work together. One morning, on our way to work, we got stopped at a signal light. While sitting there, I noticed, in the left hand turning lane across from us, there were about 8-12 cars waiting for the green arrow to signal them into a safe left turn.

Something odd caught my attention in that line of cars. I noticed all of the cars had their left blinker on. You could see 8-12 blinking orange lights, but they were all blinking at a different rate, speed and sequence.

I called her attention to the line of cars and their blinking lights. I asked her Do you think they are blinking differently because: 1- They are all different makes/models of cars? 2- Approached the intersection at different times (obviously) and turned their blinkers on at a different time than the car’s in front of them? 3- Do you think if all those cars were lined up and were told On your mark, get set, GO! And all turned their blinkers on at the same time that they would blink together?

Did she engage me in conversation about the endless possibilities of the lights blinking in front of us? No. Did she quietly sit and reflect on the suggested possibilities? No. Her response? The shit in your head bugs the fuck out of me!

Thanks, Sis, I love you too.

04.19.07

Thinking Blogger? Me?

Posted in Uncategorized tagged at 7:27pm by Cece


Wow, that’s something I’ve never been called before! lol Carrie honored me with this award. Thanks so much, you’ve made my day. Now here are the rules:

1) You are supposed to link to the original post.
2) Choose five other blogs that make you think and pass along the love and adoration and the special award.
3) And that are award virgins.

Here is where I share the love:

Jen, at Come What May always has beautifully written and well thought out posts. She always seems to be examining life. Go check her out.

Ms.L at Those Weird Homeschoolers always has great posts. The one I enjoyed most recently was My Raven.

Chrissa at Ramblings of a Stay At Home Mom always has great stories and lessons she shares on her blog. Her children are absolutely precious and you can tell she is not only a great mother but an awesome teacher!

Lindsey at The Good Kind Of Dorky always has a mix bag of posts. She can make you laugh hard, like no one I know, and make you think just as hard.

Jen at A Good Cup Of Coffee has a very friendly and inspirational blog. I enjoy reading her posts.

There you have it. These are just 5 of my favorite daily reads.

Well, this sucks

Posted in Uncategorized tagged at 4:31am by Cece

My grandma passed yesterday but her services aren’t being held until next Monday and Tuesday. Guess its a busy week at the funeral home. The good thing, though, is that because they’re busy, everything has been transferred to our Church instead of services held at the Mortuary.

So that means I’m off to work tomorrow and Friday then taking Monday and Tuesday off.

What a hell of a week its been since last Thursday when she came home and it continues.

Thanks for all the hugs, prayers and kind words you’ve given my family and I.

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