How long do you leave up someone’s link, at your sidebar, if they don’t post?
I mean, isn’t that like free advertising for them? So how long would you leave their shit up before you update your template and kick them out? A month? Two months? What if they’re a “friend”?

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January 24, 2007 at 9:59pm
The "Mind"
I recently deleted Heidi. She had not posted since the week after the Chicago trip.
I tend to give friends longer than just random blogs I’ve stumbled across.
I feel your pain, I’ve got a few that I would love to keep, but I don’t want a huge blog list and they aren’t frequent updaters.
January 25, 2007 at 12:10am
Sassy Momma
I promise to post more!!! haha
I dunno. Never deleted any of mine. Guess I should update because there are a few on there that I don’t visit very often, and a few that I do visit but don’t have listed.
January 25, 2007 at 12:18am
Craze
Don’t know, but you best leave me there! lol
January 25, 2007 at 12:33am
Carrie
Is this because I didn’t blog Monday? hehe
Oh crap. My blogroll is getting out of hand. I would never take off any of my friends. I would email them and ask them if they quit. It happens. I’ve got to eliminate my blogroll because I am starting to get a good circle of friends and I want to read them everyday.
January 25, 2007 at 1:26am
Cece
Mind, I think I removed Heidi’s, too.
Sassy, I love you to pieces, girl, I’d never ditch you.
Craze, your ass ain’t going no where. See, at least you blog a few times a month. You’re luck I love you.
Carrie, you’re too funny. Guess I’m heartless b/c I don’t email I just axe them. Oh & my blogroll has GROWN! I come in, post and try to read/post to everyone on my blogroll, daily. If I don’t get to them during the day I make an attempt at night (when parenting permits). If not, the next day I go in & read/comment what I missed. I know I appreicate it when people do that w/me!
Jen, I feel the same way. You’re such a good Blogger. {hugs}
January 25, 2007 at 1:33am
Ms.L
I used to be reeeeally easy going about it,but now that I read so many people I have to be ruthless.
For me it’s 2 months max then they’re gone,unless of course they’re special. I do make allowences for certain people:)
January 25, 2007 at 4:13am
Oh, The Joys
Don’t ask me, once you get on mine you’ll DIE there — or at least retire and play golf.
January 25, 2007 at 4:22pm
Lindsey
Oh shit, did i miss a post of yours?!
It’s funny, about 2 minutes before I hopped over to your blog I noticed that this one gal on my blogroll never comments and I barely read her blog…so what’s the point of having her there, ya know? Another girl, I really like, but she hasn’t posted since November. I’m thinking the blog is over with, but I keep hoping…
I say we just get rid of them. Their loss.
January 25, 2007 at 4:32pm
Beth
If this is because I’ve been working and trying to make a living so I can go to Mexi-ho and you are threatening me with deletion, we’re gonna have words, ho. LMAO!
Yeah, I think it’s time for me to clean up mine too. I have a feeling I know who you’re talking about too. I say give them a month and if nothing from them, buh bye.
January 25, 2007 at 5:15pm
Cece
Ah-ha! All the guilt surfaces now, huh girls? LOL
I’m thinking a month & then they’re outtie! Why not? I like to keep my blog alive with people who post and reply.
January 25, 2007 at 5:23pm
Slackermommy
I’ve been wondering about this too because I need to clean up my blogroll. I’m deleting a few and adding you!
January 25, 2007 at 6:30pm
Rachel
I think I’ve started to list everyone on a page on my website that nobody visits since LJ sucks about listing them. I’ll just link that to the LJ sidebar instead. That way, Everyone is there, but I don’t have to pay attention to all of them (plus…I recently got bitched at on a board because a chick there wasn’t in my LJ friends group. Um, sweetie…it’e because you’re annoying as f…)
January 25, 2007 at 7:06pm
Cece
Slacker, thanks! I’m honored to be on your sidebar!
Yeah, its hard to have annoying frineds with blogs. LOL