Yesterday we lost our puppy, Lucy. She was run over in our driveway by a neighbor. It was an accident, of course, but her injuries were too much and we had to put her down.Drama Queen was walking her when it happened and saw the whole thing. I knew what had to be done, yet I didn’t want to make the decision. Mister made the official decision and I had to make the call to the animal hospital. The girls were there with me and I asked them to be very discrete about what we decided to do, I didn’t want to break the news to them there. Once home I sat them down and told them she didn’t make it. My God, the cries and tears from those two were so heartbreaking. As I told my girlfriends, as a parent, that was THE hardest thing I had ever done, telling my kids their dog is dead.
My sister, grandma and I took the kids out to lunch as to get their mind off of Lucy. But once home, the tears began again. And then when my niece got home from her visit with her dad we had to go through it all over again. I was most worried about Drama Queen because she witnessed it, but she seemed to sleep soundly last night. Probably out of sheer exhaustion. But The Snitch slept with us and did a bit more crying in my arms last night. Today the three of them sound sad but so far the tears have subsided. For now, at least.
A girlfriend of mine just recommended Dog Heaven for the girls, so I ordered it. I hope this will help them cope better.
Lucy was 7 months old when she died and is survived by a mommy, daddy, two sisters, a cousin, a doggie cousin, a nina, two grandma’s and a grampy. She will be missed.


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November 27, 2006 at 8:54pm
Anonymous
I’m so sorry baby girl. It is the worst worst pain to lose a pet. Please kiss those girls for me. Love you! *HUGS*
November 27, 2006 at 9:50pm
Lex
I’m so sorry for your loss. I know this pain all two well. I lost two yorkies in 2 years. One died at 9 years old and I lost his brother in a “custody” battle.
My thoughts are with you and your girls.
Thanks for visiting my weight loss blog. I’ll be back to yours for sure.
November 27, 2006 at 10:46pm
Anonymous
I’m so sorry.
Here is a blog that a fellow blogger friend set up that might help you.
http://fourleggedlove.wordpress.com
*big hugs*
November 27, 2006 at 10:46pm
The "Mind"
Again, I’m so sorry to hear that. *hugs*
November 27, 2006 at 10:58pm
Carrie
Oh Cece, I’m so sorry to hear that. That just hurts my heart so much. Time will heal all wounds but the ones that are here now seem to linger. Take care of yourself and the girls. *hugs*
November 27, 2006 at 11:16pm
KaraMia
Oh that’s terrible!! poor babies. I hope your neighbor stepped up and will be paying the vet bills.
November 28, 2006 at 12:14am
Angie
That is so awful, Cece. Can’t imagine trying to tell the kids something like that. Luckily, they have a great mama to help them through it.
Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Angie
November 28, 2006 at 2:20am
Ms.L
Oh Cece I am so,so sorry.
What a terrible shock for you all.
My heart is breaking for you:(
November 28, 2006 at 4:18am
Annie
Oh, how awful for all of you! I’m so sorry that happened….it reminds me of a story I read years and years ago.
A woman’s dog was killed and it happened when she was tremendously busy with something pressing — so she held in her grief and didn’t cry much. Time sped by and many, many years later when something sad happened in her life she was absolutely distraught!! Overly so. The depth of her grief didn’t really match the event itself. She wondered why she was so totally overcome with grief and depression. A visit to the psychologist revealed the answer….the mind may forget a sorrow, but the body doesn’t. Her grief for the loss of her doggie had just been buried. Her mind forgot it, but her body didn’t. And un-processed grief will surface eventually — even years and years later.
The point of telling you this, you ask? Well, it is to comfort you when you see your children crying and you r reaction is to stop their tears. Don’t. Let them process that grief fully and completely and it won’t “haunt them” into the future. Hope that helps.
Thanks for dropping by my blog, Cece! I always enjoy a visit from you.
November 28, 2006 at 4:33am
Lindsey
I’m so sorry to hear that. I know what it is like to lose a pet–a member of the family. I’ll pray for your doggy and you and your family. I hope things get better day by day.
November 28, 2006 at 6:40am
Anonymous
Hey there. Thanks for stopping by my humble little blog. I’m SO sorry to hear about your dog. My daughter had witnessed our little poodle get attacked by a Samoyed; she grabbed him by the jaw and flung him and competely rotated his jaw.
We thought he should have been put down but we just couldn’t bear the thought of that being the last memory she would have of him so he went through 3 surgeries and months of recovery — I think he has 9 lives! Now I call him my “Gucci” dog because he’s been SOOOO expensive!
I can’t even imagine how traumatized your daughter must be right now. I’m SSOOO sorry. I hope she feels better soon! We’ll pray that she only remembers the good things and the memory of witnessing that will fade away! God bless you all as you grieve this member of your family.
November 28, 2006 at 3:33pm
Anonymous
Thats a tough way to lose a pet. I had to put my old dog Jake down about 3 months ago. It was not an easy thing to do.
Thanks for stopping by my blog!
November 28, 2006 at 5:43pm
Anonymous
I’m so sorry! It will certainly rock our world to lose our dog. He’s nine so he was our first baby. The kids don’t know a world without him. Dog Heaven is a great book for kids and Rainbow Bridge is a great poem.
November 28, 2006 at 6:17pm
Anonymous
I’m so so sorry for your loss. My weinee dog is 13 yrs old and I know the day will come but I cant bear to thinkof it..as he is my first born…I’m so so sorry for your girls…time will heal….you may be purchasing a new dog for Christmas….it may help.
November 28, 2006 at 6:39pm
mom of 2
I’m so sorry to hear about Lucy! Our dog of 13 years passed away back in June and our kids were devastated! They seemed to get over it for the most part in a few days. Occasionally they will still talk about him and say they miss him. We did get another dog, Mattie, from http://www.petfinder.com. That site is awesome! Knowing that we could help another dog seemed to help them get over their grief. I hope it gets easier for them…and for you!
November 28, 2006 at 7:24pm
Cece
Thank you, everyone, for the prayers, kind words and hugs. It really helps.
The three girls seem to be doing better as of last night, no tear shed at least, so that’s a start.
We did go to the mall to Chritmas shop and they had a ball in the pet shop looking at all the puppies. It was a bitter sweet, that’s for sure. I know they’l be fine. I really feel much better, today, seeing that they’re doing better. Thanks again.